I’m team Ridgeline... if you are a weekend project guy that commutes with the pickup it’s the clear winner. Looks aside, it can basically hang with payloads and tow almost as much as the mid sized. You get a ride with independent suspension and Honda space ergonomics.
Not for everyone, but if you haul some mulch or gravel a few trips a year and maybe need a pickup for an apt move the ridgeline checks the boxes.