When I get rid of this one there won't be any more. My garden is full.![]()
I recently fell down into a 'why men are not getting married anymore' YouTube algorithm rabbit hole. It's pretty interesting, many moving parts, the salient features being generations of men getting punk-slapped by the court system via-a-vis support/alimony, the lingering after effects of the me-too movement, the emergence of the 'boss-babe', the independent woman end result of decades of feminism that has churned out legions of women that relentlessly proclaim 'I don't need no man', and the 'toxic masculinity' campaign waged against men.
Put all that in a blender & spin it around for a while & men have, according to the statistics, walked away in huge numbers; the fear of being accused of something, the ultra-high expectations they can't meet, and the reality that if they move forward and things go sideways, the loss of a huge chunk of their property... apparently they are concluding in ever increasing numbers that it just isn't worth it anymore. Who is most upset about all this, well, women naturally, the men are making a conscious decision of their own free will, the women that want to get married are not part of that decision, they're just stuck with a shrinking pool of men that are willing to get married.
It's apparently not only in the realm of marriage but also dating, that's plummeted as well. That particular aspect has been impacted by social media/on-line dating apps, seems that 80 or 90% of women chase only the top 10% of men, as they all appear to believe they themselves are top 10% of women, a mathematical impossibility, but a belief that's been fostered by social media which ceaselessly reinforces the idea that you (ever single woman) are beautiful irrespective of any subjective or objective realities.
I don't know where all this is going, but it all seems to fit right in the larger shit-show that is the 2020's.
I also don't know why I just wasted a couple minutes stinking up a frame rot thread with this nonsense
