Oh that makes sense. The previous owner of my jeep had that cross member all bent and twisted up so I had to remake it and a rear bumper. I just added the holes that the original bumper was using which was the 4 outside ones. And now that you mention it I do believe I have the bolts on the bottom of the frame rail as well. But I think the reason a lot of these tire carriers fail is cause they bounce too much combined with a weak latch. My buddies smittybilt tire carrier failed like that then the latch fell off on the trail

On mine it's got that large spindle and a double latch. The reason I did double is cause I wanted it to be rigid in 2 directions. Ones a slam latch one is a destaco? latch or something. The slam latch alone is strong enough but with the other one it is rock solid. I also have rubber stoppers on there which don't let it rattle.
Here's a video I took when I was building it. You can close it with one hand with the tire on it, and it doesn't bounce when off roading like most of these do. Only downside is I wish I could've designed it just as strong but hidden somehow. I got a video somewhere of the finished bumper but it's somewhere within like 12 hours of footage on my gopro so I ain't trying to find that right now
Then the second latch:
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Anyways not tryna steal OP's thread just throwing some ideas out there. It's cool there's so many people on this forum making their own stuff.