I have BFG KO2's on my TJ, and they are very quiet, but then again the wind noise in the TJ pretty much drowns out everything else, especially on the highway. I have Firestone Destination A/T's on my 2019 Grand Cherokee, and have been very happy with them, I think they are a perfect match for that Jeep. They aren't very aggressive looking, but definitely a "sleeper" tire and do great off road and in the snow. A friend has KO2s on his WK2, and they hum quite a bit at speeds above 50 mph. I think tire noise is more noticeable in the quieter Grand Cherokee since the interior isolates you from other sounds and wind noise.
Personally I think M/Ts on a mostly street driven vehicle are a complete waste, since they suck in pretty much everything besides mud. It's like driving on snow tires in July. One of my XJs had mud tires on it briefly and between the vibration and basically turning into ice skates in the rain and snow I couldn't get them off that Jeep fast enough.